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Luck at You

The world is a great mirror, and reflects our lives just as we ourselves look upon it. L. Frana Baum

Sometimes the best thing we can do to change our lives is change our perspective of it.

List ten ways you are living a lucky life .

  1. I am alive, healthy and able to function everyday.
  2. I receive free education for amazing job opportunists in my future.
  3. I live on this planet and have the chances to see how beautiful some places really are.
  4. We have oceans and I can swim in them and also my thirst is gifted with filtered water from our oceans.
  5. I am able to give and receive and have many forms of connections and relationships with amazing people.
  6. I can change the world and help make things better instead of worse.
  7. I can choose to be anything I want !
  8. I can create and explore and find new things that the rest of the world has not yet discovered.
  9. I can wake up everyday blessed just to be here alive and able to do anything.
  10. Every moment that goes by I am able to make the most memorable and worthwhile memories.
  11. I can love and spread light and smiles .
  12. I am one of a kind and unique and can do amazing things with and for myself.
  13. I decide on my life and only I do.

Look at things different and see that you are extremely lucky! If you choose to keep your way of viewing the world like this, than luck will always be apart of your world.

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Endless Possibilities

What more can this world do than offer us countless breaths to hold into your lungs and countless hours to do with what you wish ?

What possibilities do you hold in the palm of your hands ?

Make a list of the possibilities you hold and don’t limit yourself to small ones, we are given the opportunity to do whatever we want in this life and what makes us happy when we choose to open ours mind to it. This comes along with standing up for yourself and trusting your path.. People will always try to put their opinions and directions on your choices and you can always listen but you must remember you control your destiny and happiness…This is your life and not theirs… So own your own moments and never let someone’s darkness cloud over your light and stop your shine. You are designed to create amazing things and achieve what ever you dream of in this world, so hold on to your beliefs and fly high!

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Today I Will Open my Heart to Express and Experience Love

‘I will know love when I realize…. I must open my heart if I want to feel love!

No words can bring back what you believe was taken from you or fix what you believe to be broken in your heart. No matter what is said, or how it is said, words cannot heal or open a heart that has been closed by pain. When your heart has been closed in anger or fear, only the power of love can open it.

There is absolutely no-thing anyone can say or do to make you trust them once they have betrayed you. You will not depend on someone once they have let you down. No matter how hard they may try, no one can find the words that will make you forgive them once you have decided you cannot. In either of these states, you are not open to love. You are holding on to grievances, judgements, expectations or demands. You seek punishment or revenge. And no matter what anyone may say or do, you will not feel fulfilled. In this state, you are not open to love. Instead you intent on the punishment of yourself and others.

Many of us have had the experience of shutting our hearts down. We do it unconsciously to protect ourselves. We do it in response to the pain of losing love. We do it to the ward off the desperation of unrequited love. You see, when a heart goes into shutdown, the love that is required can not come from someone else. It is a love you must bring forth from within yourself. This is the love required to heal, and it cannot get in or get out as long as you are holding on to grievances, judgements, expectations or demands.

Until today, you may have closed your heart to protect yourself. Just for today, open the doors of your heart. Release all grievances you are holding against others. Allow one person to do something nice for you, say something nice to you. If your heart does not open just a little bit today, try it again tomorrow.

Today I will open my heart to express and experience the love we deserve.’

‘Until Today – Iyanla Vanzart’

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Get Yourself Back on the Right Pathway.

Life isn’t always perfect and sometimes we fall into a hole or stumble off our pathway and we get lost a bit. Don’t be hard on yourself, because we’re only human and we make mistakes to learn from them. If you really want to get back on that golden pathway again, you are going to have to make some changes or accept what is and stay strong, because you can do it and move forward, with your head up. It takes some willpower and motivation to want to make things better. No matter what anyone says… I believe in you & you need to believe in yourself and who knows maybe you might just end up on a better path than you ever dreamed up. Everything happens for a reason and the things we go through makes us stronger and wiser. God gave the toughest battles to you, because he knows you can handle it.

Some simple actions and changes you can do to help things get better in your daily life and overcome your struggles.

  1. Try and listen to the ones around you more often. Sometimes we talk more than we choose to listen but when you talk you are repeating something you already know, and when you listen… you are learning something new.
  2. We often blur things out rather than focusing. Focus so you can start to see things clearly and the truth of your reality.
  3. Be honest with people and if you aren’t being honest with others then your not being honest with yourself.
  4. Love yourself before you love others. It takes time to explore and learn about yourself but in the end you can finally realize what makes you happy and what you truly love.
  5. Be loyal to the ones you love so they can trust and respect you and if you don’t feel that they apply those things in your life… they shouldn’t be in your life.
  6. Respect, communicate and love your mother.
  7. Be grateful and let others know it.
  8. Stand up for your life and voice yourself.
  9. Drop your harsh judgements on things and people because they are a reflection of yourself.
  10. Admire your beauty and others. Women should raise women up, not let jealousy and men bring them against each other.
  11. Don’t control anyone. If it’s forced it’s not a force.
  12. Put yourself in proper places so you can meet and connect with the people you need in your life because socializing and connections are very important in life.
  13. Have goals in place and reach them! This gives your life purpose and makes you feel good about yourself.
  14. Spend more time and help out your family.
  15. Say no if you don’t feel it…you are free to make any choice in your life and not feel bad about it or have to question yourself.
  16. Don’t people control you and walk all over you. You are human .. not a robot.
  17. Relax your mind and release those stressful thoughts that make your head feel tense.
  18. If you need help, don’t feel ashamed to ask for it and receive !
  19. Do your work and don’t over think everything. Let things flow together in peace while you wake up everyday feeling blessed to be alive and knowing everything will be okay… if it’s not okay … it’s not the end.
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We are Only Trapped by our Thoughts

Our lives are continuously producing thoughts on literally everything that exists, we have always been taught to have something to say (a thought) about everything infront of us. Some people’s life’s are smooth and easy going and that usually leads a life of good thoughts and feelings to follow.

img_2584On the other hand they’re people who have to experience a lot negativity in their lives and this leads them to having a bunch of negative thoughts. Each negative thought a person has, starts out by putting like a bar around our mind and eventually 100 bad thoughts in one day or even an hour is wrapped around your mind and self like a prison cell. Each negative thought adds one bar up to go around you. This can keep are person deeply stuck inside of theirselves and losing the freedom of their lives. What we have to remember and know though, is we can control these thoughts , which means we can control our life and it’s so easy to forget all of this when these bad thoughts start telling us… unnecessary things. We start to listen to the negative and our beliefs tend to follow them too.

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Every negative thought needs to be stopped and changed into a positive one, no matter how many times it takes you to tell yourself over and over again and correct those thoughts into good ones. You direct and control your life and deserve one you love to live. Don’t let someone else’s negative thoughts or your own in general take control because as soon as you let them go and become aware of the things you can change … you will understand how perfect you are and a negative voice in your head, doesn’t have to make you feel that way. Remove it, replace it and free your mind.

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Everyday – Self Love & Care Stress Reliefs

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Free your mind

The most important thing in life is keeping balance in your daily life, when it comes to your self care, this is extremely important and effects a persons’ self-esteem majorly. You must love yourself first, before you can love anything else, and if you keep convincing yourself that this isn’t true, then you are constantly fighting with yourself to be happy. 

Sometimes we struggle daily and find ourselves so stressed out by a situation in our lives, that is can lead us into depression or sometimes feeling so drained that we forget to take care or ourselves. We need to take care of our needs first and make sure we are showing our self the love we deserve.. Treat yourself daily with one thing that you enjoy, self care will always help pick you up and help you keep shining bright like the beautiful person you are.

Sometimes we struggle daily and find ourselves so stressed out by a situation in our lives, that this can lead us into depression or sometimes feeling so drained that we forget to take care of ourselves. We need to take care of our needs first and make sure we are showing our self the love we deserve. Treat yourself daily with one thing that you enjoy or brightens your soul. Self care and love will always help pick your moods up and help you keep shining bright like the beautiful person you are. 

Here is the List of SELF LOVE & CARE – STRESS RELIEFS, these will help you by completing atleast one a day for yourself!

  • Take a relaxing bath  
  • Meditate 
  • See a comedy movie at the theatres
  • Go shopping for a new outfit or something that you really like 
  • Get dressed up and go out with some friends 
  • Turn your music up all the way and dance your heart out 
  • Talk to someone ( coucellor, friend, teacher, parent, etc.)
  • Go tanning in the salon or outside 
  • Brush your teeth and even try using whitening strips 
  • Get a hair cut or a new hair style 
  • Massage Therapist 
  • Mani and Pedicures are extremly relaxing 
  • Go away for a weekend and relax
  • Go swimming in a hotub or use a sauna 
  • Prepapre yourself a healthy meal plan for the week 
  • Spend more time going for walks in the nature 
  • Create a personal journal with goals, desires etc.
  • Light up the house with candles and open a bottle of wine 
  • Turn off your phone or shut your computer down for the weekend 
  • Face masks 
  • Go out for a nice dinner with your partner
  • Catch up with some old friends 
  • Smoke some marijuana ( if you agree with this substance)
  • Fufill your sexual needs and desires with someone 
  • Try out karaoke
  • Make yourself a cup of tea or hot chocolate
  • Create a scrap book or DIY project
  • Lay under or watch the stars at night
  • Have a campfire
  • Rent a boat or jet skis
  • Embrace your inner child
  • Throw on comfy clothes and put your feet up
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Allow Wealth to Flow Into Your Life

We must always be happy with what we have and positive with what we do not. You could have $83.00 in your bank or pocket, and instead of having any negative feelings or thoughts cling on to that $83.00, you must change your thought process and be truly grateful and happy with the amount you have. Enjoy the awareness of having that amount of money and know the value is very high.

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Even if your money fell out of your pocket and you lost it , they’re no reason to get upset because you should believe that your wealth will flow right back into your life again, with more power to it. Feel love towards money and hold no greed on it, just to act selfish and become miserable over it. When another person could use a dollar or you could be kind and choose to pay it forward, share your money especially when you have no use for it. Don’t become sad, angry, doubtful, stressed, and pretty much any emotion latched on to the thought of money, just let it go. Don’t squeeze it to tight and choke it to death so that it stops flowing towards you.

Let it go, let it flow and be happy with what you have always.

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